What if Struggling Isn’t Part of the Job (as a consultant)

Somewhere along the way, we bought into a lie: if you’re a consultant, struggling is just part of the deal.

  • Feast or famine? Normal.
  • Overdelivering to prove your worth? Of course.
  • Unpredictable income? That’s the price of freedom.

But what if it’s not?

What if the grind isn’t a rite of passage—but a warning sign?

The industrial economy trained us to wait to be picked. To follow the rules. To bill by the hour, compete on price, and stay busy.

But independent consulting isn’t industrial. It’s personal.

And that means the old rules don’t apply—unless we drag them with us.

The consultants who aren’t struggling?

They’ve shifted.

  • From selling time to selling outcomes.
  • From chasing leads to building trust at scale.
  • From saying yes to everything to becoming known for one thing.

They don’t hustle harder. They design smarter.

They own a method. A voice. A point of view.

They make it easy for the right clients to say yes—and for the wrong ones to walk away.

Struggling isn’t noble. It’s not proof you’re committed.

It’s just a sign you’re playing by rules that no longer serve you.

You don’t have to wait to be chosen.

You can build a practice that works for you—on purpose.

The only real question is:

Are you willing to stop struggling long enough to rethink what normal could be?

My Day as a Freelancer: My Wife’s View vs. Reality

Wife’s View:
“Oh, they’re living the dream! Wake up late, work in PJs, sip tea while watching the sunrise.”
 
Reality:
Up early, quick workout, dressed and ready for meetings like everyone else.
 
Wife’s View:
“They’re always at cute cafés, networking with inspiring people.”
 
Reality:
Coffee shop = overpriced latte + praying for stable WiFi
Also, why is everyone around me typing like their life depends on it?
 
Wife’s View:
“Afternoons are for relaxing and catching up on life.”
 
Reality:
3 pm slump hits. Still 40 emails to go.
Product training video: play… rewind… huh?
 
Freelancing is a mix of hustle, tea, and chasing clarity.

Is smartphone usability going down?

There was a time when I knew how to change every setting on my smartphone. Ok, I’m a bit of a geek/nerd when it comes to that. But recently I’ve found myself searching online for instructions on how to do something on my phone. 

At some point, it was very easy to understand (and remember) where to find a specific setting. Also, one would simply learn and understand how things work simply by using the interface and exploring.But this seems to not be the case anymore. This changed sometime in the last 5 years (that’s what my gut feel tells me).

So many new features were added – many of them actually useful. But it’s harder to know intuitively where to find them and how to use them. 

Comparison of Smartphones vs “Dumb Phones”, how features were added and how usability changed. This is based on observation and gut feel and not any real data.

Is that because Steve Jobs is not controlling things anymore at Apple?

Obviously, I’m talking about iPhones and iOS. I’ll pause here for a minute in case you have an opinion on Apple products you want to let out…

If we leave any differences between phones and their software aside – do you know how to do everything you want on your smartphone?

  • How do you feel about the evolution of smartphones and their user interface?
  • Do you think it became more difficult to do things on your phone? Or easier and more intuitive?

Half of something is still nothing overall

If you come across an idea you are half-way there. But if you don’t do anything with your ideas nothing will happen, ever.

Even if it’s a really great idea, zero action means nothing will happen. One times zero is still zero.

Get your ideas out

Bring them out and do something with it! Pull out your notebook, dust off your notepad, find your notes. Then test them, try something out, talk to people, simulate stuff.

Anything is better than nothing.